As of tomorrow it has been 13 years.  Hard to believe I have been married 13 years, but that is what the math says.  Instead of getting a baby sitter we decided to take the kids out for a date.  We ended up at Arby’s then went to see How to Train Your Dragon, which was really cute.  The movie cost us $40 with no pop or anything.  Arby’s was close to $20.  If I paid a babysitter $30 and we went to a $10 movie at the cheap theater and ate a $25-30 meal at Red Lobster we are actually ahead.